Would you say you are generally happy with your appearance or it in fact needs some work?
When it is the latter, are you worried how you look may in fact send the wrong message?
By taking a concerted effort in how you look, you stand to be in a better position when it comes to how others view you.
So, is it time you put a little more focus on how you appear to others?
Don’t Take How You Look for Granted
While the key thing is how you feel about your look, don’t blow off the notion that what others think is useless.
With that in mind, here are examples where you need to put some extra focus in on how you present yourself to others:
- Your career – What could be more important than earning a respectable living? Not only does a job put food on your table and keeps a roof over you, but it allows for feeling good about oneself. So, don’t sleep on how you look to others when on the clock. Even if your job is not all that prestigious and you do not come in contact with customers, be proud of your look. For guys, this can mean making sure any facial hair looks appropriate. If it does not, it could give some people the wrong impression of you. So, it may be time to work on better grooming that facial hair of yours. This can mean going online to do a review of Gillette on demand or other such brands. The key is to find what products work for you so that grooming issues do not rise up and bite you where it hurts. Make an effort to dress appropriately too depending on what your job entails. By being presentable and taking your job in a serious way, there’s less of a chance you run into trouble.
- Your attitude – Not only can your physical appearance send the wrong message, but so can a bad attitude. That said a bad attitude can harm you in your job, with family and friends, dating and more. As an example, you are looking to re-enter the dating world. One thing most people here look for is a positive attitude. If you go into dating with a negative frame of mind, can you expect to get many dates? Since many guys tend not to show their feelings, some women may sense this as you not being interested. No, it may be you do not show a lot of emotion or are even a little on the shy side. The key is to look better for the woman in your life or in some instances women. This means not only your physical appearance, but your attitude and more. By being cognizant of the image you project, there is less chance of it coming back to hurt you.
No matter where and when your appearance comes into play, do all you can to show a positive and confident self.